If you’ve been using vibrators for a while, your collection probably has a bullet vibe, a wand, a clitoral vibrator, and a G-spot vibrator. If you like a bit of challenge and adventure, you have already added a rabbit-style vibrator to your list as well.
Isn’t it time you try a double-ended vibrator now? It’s the only time of vibrator you can share with a partner at the same time. So, if you are ready to take things to the next level with your partner in the bedroom, bringing this one in makes absolute sense.
What Are Double-Ended Vibrators?
A typical vibrator usually has a tapered end for either inserting the toy or resting it against your sensitive areas to send vibrations externally. On the other end is the base, which is either for holding the toy or attaching the toy to your clothing to keep it in place.
Double-ended vibrators extend this concept by having two curved ends.
Simply put, double-ended vibrators have two stimulating ends and two motors. The shape, length, and type of motor can vary for each end. Couples can share the vibrator at the same time. Or you can use both ends on yourself simultaneously.
You don't need to be particularly experienced to use double-ended vibrators. Depending on the shape and motor type, double-sided vibes can be used by people with varying levels of experience as well as gender.
In fact, the shape and vibrating pattern you can find for each end can be overwhelming.
- A double-side wand vibe usually has a curved wand massager at one end and a round massager with a vibe at the other.
- Double-ended bullet vibes have the overall qualities of a regular bullet vibe. But, the two ends are usually a different shape. One side is rounded while the other side is sharper.
- A double-ended pen vibrator has one side with a suction tip while the other is like the tip of a pen. The pen tip, specifically, works on your sensitive spots like the G-spot and the A-spot.
- A double-ended massager vibrator may have two ends with the same shape. It’s usually for external use and two people can enjoy it at the same time.
3 Huge Benefits of Double-Ended Vibrators
Double-ended vibrators are the ultimate form of vibrators. You get every feature you could ask for in a single vibrator. Mainly, there are 3 main benefits of double-ended vibrators which might interest you:
1. Dual Stimulation
Double-ended vibes will have two motors which work separately from each other. You can power one off while using the other or turn on both at the same time. The same applies to vibration patterns.
One motor may offer an entirely different vibration pattern than the other to suit the purpose of the ends. For example, the vibration on one end may be more rumbling, while the other end offers a buzz.
So you experience sensations at odds with each other at the same time.
2. Versatility
You can insert double-ended vibrators vaginally or anally. You can insert both ends at the same time in your vagina and anus.
Use it externally to work on your clitoris while the other end sends vibrations to your mound. Both ends can be for external use. Similarly, one end can be for external use and the other for internal use.
For some vibrators, you might even have the option to switch from vibrations to suction or experience small puffs of air with each vibration.
You can even find vibrators where you can warm up one end and cool the other end. If you were to use both ends on yourself at the same time or switch between the ends, you can experience one-of-a-kind temperature play.
3. Ideal for Couples and Solo Play
Couples can insert one end of a double-ended vibrator at the same time.
According to sexologist Carol Queen, enjoyable as it is, it can be awkward to get this right. She advises getting into a scissors position. So, your bodies have a considerable distance from each other to insert the vibe and move in rhythm against each other.
You can also use double-sided vibrators for double penetration. You get your choice in which side you want to switch to or how many vibration patterns you want to experience.
If the toy is bendable enough, you can insert one end into the vagina and the other end into your anal zone.
But, the beauty of a vibrator is you don’t need to insert it to enjoy it. External stimulation can feel even better. Something as simple as letting both ends touch the thighs of both partners can bring you close to the edge.
How to Choose the Right Double-Ended Vibrator
Rather than shopping by looking at different vibrators, it’s easier to note down a list of features you want.
Filter by your preference and you will find the perfect double-sided vibe. Though, you should know a couple of things before deciding on a vibrator:
1. Body-Safe Material
With adult toys, you have two main choices in body-safe materials - porous and nonporous.
Silicone, stainless steel, wood, glass, and hard plastic all come under nonporous. TPE, rubber, and TPR fall into the porous category.
Go for nonporous material if both ends of your double-sided vibrator are made for internal use. You will likely find silicone and hard plastic materials the most since they are more flexible.
For example, the quality, shape, and flexibility of the silicone Playboy The Seeker Multiplay Vibrator makes it appealing for both G-spot and P-spot use.
Make sure the ingredient list doesn’t contain phthalates, which are harmful chemicals.
Overall, if the double-sided vibrator has even one end for internal use, nonporous materials are the safest. They are easy to clean as fluids don’t seep through. Since the vibrator will go inside you, you want to make sure any type of bacteria or germ isn’t clinging to it.
2. Size Options for Double Ended Vibrators
When you think of double-ended vibrators, the first image in your mind will likely be a wand-type vibrator or a rabbit-style one. But double-sided vibrators can be as small as a bullet vibe, barely amounting to 2 or 3 inches.
Of course, the size of the vibrator does have an effect on the kind of motor it can fit. Moreso since it has to fit two motors.
If you want something exclusively discreet, a bullet-style double-ended vibrator will make the most sense. They tend to look like lipsticks or the encasing of a small pen-knife.
The smart thing to do is to let what you want to use it for influence the size you select. So, if it’s for use with a partner at the same time, you want a particularly lengthy vibrator, about 7 to 8 inches for comfort.
If you want to try double penetration on yourself with the double-sided vibe, 6 to 7 inches makes the most sense.
If it’s for solo use, 4 to 5 inches is enough. Meanwhile, if you want a better grip on the handle, longer vibrators are best.
For the most part, go for lengthier double-ended vibrators to take full advantage of the flexibility. Otherwise, go for bullet-sized double-ended vibrators if discretion and travel-friendliness if your top priority.
3. Features of Double-Ended Vibrators
Since double-ended vibrators have two ends, you get a host of features in a single vibrator. The two motors can have completely different vibration speed patterns and styles.
Some vibrators will also have suction or air technology built-in on both ends like the Evolved 2 Become 1 Strapless.
You will also have your choice between buttons, remote-controlled, or app-controlled vibrator. Do you prefer a compact design where the toy is the only thing you have to carry with you? Go for button-only vibrators.
Remote-controlled vibrators will appeal to you if you want to go hands-free. Moreso if you want to try double-penetration on yourself.
If you are in a long-distance relationship, you might get more joy out of app-controlled vibrators. Your partner can control the vibration settings via the app.
Whether your vibrator is battery-powered or rechargeable also has a lot of impact on the quality. Battery-powered vibes don’t last long, but swapping batteries is easier if you’re in the middle of a play and the power goes out.
USB rechargeable vibes last for years. As long as you charge it fully before you use it, it should work for 2 to 3 hours with ease.
Now, if it’s a double-sided wand vibe like the Blush Wellness Dual Sense Dual Vibe, you can keep using it even while recharging.
Most modern-day vibrators are also waterproof. Using your double-ended vibrator in the shower and cleaning it is easier if it’s water-resistant.
How to use Double-Ended Vibrators
With double-ended vibrators, it’s less about techniques and more about familiarity. The better you know the motor functions and the strong point of each end, the better time you will have with it.
There are multiple ways you can use a double-ended vibrator. A lot of it depends on the purpose of each end.
For solo play, the most popular form of enjoyment is double penetration. You insert one end of the vibe into your vagina and another into your anus. You can switch it up by inserting both ends into your vagina as well.
You will have to guide it by the middle to insert both ends. To do this, users suggest lying on your back to guide the ends into you. Use your hands to thrust the toy inside while also bearing down with your hips.
Sapphic couples can have fun by penetrating their vaginas or anus and thrusting in rhythm. One partner can even insert one end anally and the other end into the vagina. Make sure the double-side vibrator is particularly long if it’s what you want to use it for.
People in heterosexual relationships can also try this, as well as gay couples. It’s possible to enjoy this in a missionary position, but side by side will probably be most comfortable for everyone.
Make sure to check in with each other and play around with the vibration settings to get the rhythm right.
How to Clean and Care for Double-Ended Vibrators
If you plan to swap the ends of the vibrator with your partner, put a condom on both ends before using it. Follow the same safety measure if you plan on switching it between your own anus and vagina.
Similarly, for simultaneous penetration with a partner, opting for a condom is the best way to avoid any kind of STI situation.
Now, you should also clean your double-sided vibe before you use it. For waterproof double-ended vibrators, clean them with warm water and dish soap.
If it’s not waterproof, you can also use a toy cleaner.
Since the toys have motors, you should use a washcloth to wipe the vibrators rather than run them under the sink or submerge them in water.
If the toy is battery-powered, remove the batteries before cleaning the toy.
If it’s a rechargeable toy, try to prevent the area of the charging port from getting in any water.
Additionally, vibrators tend to have a flexible, bendy shape with nooks and crannies. You can use a toothbrush to reach those areas.
Follow the same measure for cleaning the toys after you use them for solo or partner play.
As for storage, if you have the original storage box, keep the toy inside it after air drying it. Make sure the toy is kept in a cool, dry place.
If you don’t have the original box, you can use a storage box to store your double-ended vibrators. If you have a bunch of adult toys, you can use a divider to separate them.
You can also store your vibrator in a separate sock for each.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
1. Are double-ended vibrators only for use with partners?
You can use double-ended vibrators solo or with a partner. There is no right or wrong way to use it. You can use both ends of the vibrators on your sensitive zones. Or, two partners can share one end each and play with the vibration settings.
There is no rule to follow.
2. Is it safe to use a double-ended vibrator during pregnancy?
For a low-risk pregnancy, you can have sex and use double-ended vibrators without worrying. If the ends are for external use, the risk is almost non-existent. If it’s for internal use, it’s still safe.
In fact, masturbating can help you relieve stress caused by pregnancy. But, you should consult your doctor on this before doing anything.
And if you do get the green light to use vibrators and other adult toys, make sure to keep it clean to avoid infection.
3. How to store double-ended vibrators?
Store your double-ended vibrators in storage boxes or socks. Make sure your vibrators don’t touch each other. Since the vibrator has two ends you can insert, both ends shouldn’t touch each other.
If you used one end anally and the other vaginally, the possibility of transferring bacteria from different body parts is high. Especially if you were using a porous toy.
4. What kind of lubricant is safe to use with double-ended vibrators?
The material of your double-ended vibrator determines the lube best suited for it. You can use water lube for all adult toys unless you plan on using the toy in the shower. Water lube is easy to clean, but dries too fast and washes off in the shower.
If you have a silicone vibrator, you can’t use silicone lube. If you have a rubber or latex-based vibrator, you can’t use oil lube. Materials made from similar chemicals can ruin your double-ended vibrator.
Final Thoughts
Double-ended vibrators are for everyone. It opens up a world of double pleasure for you regardless of gender. You can enjoy it solo or with a partner, enjoy both ends simultaneously, or play with one side as per your mood.
There are too many possibilities even among double vibrators. So, start with a double-sided bullet vibe and expand your collection from there.