Cuffs

Cuffs are restraint items meant to stop you from making any huge movements. With cuffs, you are either tied to a bed, or doorway or even limited from moving your wrists far away from each other. It raises the feeling of helplessness in a submissive- something they enjoy.

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How do I use cuffs safely in BDSM play?

Cuffs are the easiest BDSM items to start with, next to blindfolds. You don’t have to learn complex knotting methods with cuffs the way you do with ropes. 

Just make sure to get a cuff with a quick-release mechanism. If at any point your partner feels uncomfortable or the fit is tight enough to cut off blood circulation, you want to get them out instantly.

What materials are best for cuffs?

Leather, metal, and fur are all good cuff materials. Metal can leave the most prominent mark, so beginners steer away from it. Soft leather like the Allure Lingerie Adore Play Love Bound and fur cuffs are a good idea for beginners.

Are pleasure kits suitable for beginners?

Pleasure kits contain items like blindfolds, whips, collars, etc. If you don’t know what to do with cuffs, the rest of the items give you a direction to go to, making pleasure kits suitable for beginners.

Can cuffs be combined with other BDSM accessories?

Cuffs go well with blindfolds and floggers/other submission items. You can often find them in packages like the Fetish Tentation Submission Kit.

How do I ensure cuffs are comfortable for extended wear?

You can wear faux fur cuffs like the Calexotics Playful Furry Cuffs and test the cuffs to get a good fit. Make sure the cuffs don’t dig into your wrists or ankles to leave a mark.

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How to Choose The Best Cuffs

  • Safety Feature: You want your handcuff to have a quick-release feature. If you are a beginner, you especially don't want to get into a situation where your submissive’s blood circulation is being cut off while you’re struggling to get the handcuff off. 
  • Adjustability: Look for adjustable cuffs like the Sportsheets Saffron Handcuffs. Not only are they suitable for different body sizes, but you can also adjust the cuff to feel more comfortable while restrained. 
  • Material: If you are a beginner, go for a padded fur cuff. If you are experienced, you would enjoy leather or metal cuffs more.
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