Welcome to Toronto: Canada's Premier Destination for Sexual Wellness

Finding out what Toronto likes is the same as knowing what the rest of Canada likes. The cultural center certainly influences much of the choices. 

So, let’s take a look at the sexual product categories Toronto can’t live without.

1. Luxury and Comfort

There’s no point in sex if it doesn’t start with relaxation. And you can only relax when you get the right blend of luxury and comfort. For Toronto, luxury comes in the form of candles doubling as massage lotions. 

The Je Joue Luxury Massage Candle is a particularly hot topic. Let the candle melt for 15 minutes. Then, you can pour the melted wax directly onto your partner's skin and offer them a sensual massage. It’s got a sweet smell of jasmine and tangerine, which will leave both of you feeling excited for the next steps. 

The homegrown Shunga Caress By Candlelight Island and the edible Earthly Body Heart Tin are also popular choices. 

A good massage has to be followed with the use of the right lube. Of course, this depends on what you need the lube for. The Sliquid H2O and Swiss Navy are the go-tos for Toronto residents for water lubes. For Siliquid in particular, the appeal lies in the unscented, natural texture of the lube. 

For anal sex, Toronto turns to the Pjur Backdoor and Wet Uranus silicone lubricants often. These are thick lubes with a non-sticky quality that makes for easy cleanup. 

Speaking of luxury and comfort, what’s more satisfying than landing on something utterly soft and stabilizing while having sex? Something as simple as the Dame Pillo for ankle and hip support has Torontonians going crazy. 

The Liberator Wedge and the Fascinator Throw sheet also help increase intimacy. You aren’t constantly worried about the lube getting all over the bed sheet, and the wedge lets you align your body closer together. 

But if you are looking for luxury the solo way, the Axis Magic Wand Toy Mount is a must to get off. 

2. Pleasure Devices

Vibrators are kind of like the rite of passage for sex toy users. It’s the one category of toy every Toronto user has in their bedroom. 

Plus, it’s inevitable since vibrators can cover every category of sex toys. 

But Toronto, in particular, doesn’t have a scarcity of users who are clearly using vibrators for solo play. This means items like the Dame Aer Clitoral Stimulator are fan favorites. The toy essentially replaces oral stimulation, with its 5-intensity level and patterns of air pulsing and sucking motions. 

In the same vein, users love the experimental Calexotics French Kiss Seducer. The head has a tip which imitates a tongue. The tip flickers and vibrates at 12 intensity levels of your choice. You pretty much orgasm the moment you turn it on. 

Tracy's Dog Rose and the Lelo Ina Wave are also highly appreciated. 

Then there are the wand vibrators. They’re reliable, the classics, and the perfect beginner's item. Toronto buys the Magic Wand Rechargeable and the Viben Sultry Intense Handheld the most. 

Of course, if we’re talking about vibrators, it’s unfair to not talk about male masturbators. 

More so when Toronto buys a whole lot of them. 

You have the innovative, disposable Tenga Egg Hard Boiled Pack. It’s the first Tenga masturbator anyone uses before you find them buying the Tenga Flip Zero or the Flip Orb. 

And if people are not buying the Tenga strokers, they are using the Drywell Hurricane or the Calexotics Optimum. 

And if the focus is on vibrating masturbators, buyers always go for the Hot Octopuss Pulse Solo or the Kiiroo PowerBlow.

3. Explorative Play

When you’re a beginner, vibrators look like the best sex toys in the world. 

You can’t get enough of them, and you don’t feel like experimenting beyond.

But before you know it, you start to wonder what flipping some of the traditional dynamics would feel like. In Toronto, the huge purchase of strap-ons can be attributed to its large LGBTQ+ population as well. 

Queer couples are always up for experimenting. This means items like the Strap on Me Unique Harness and Fun Factory Share Double Dildo sell out as soon as we rock them. 

But what was truly surprising was the amount of Romp Piccolo Pegging Kit our Toronto users bought. It looks like the men in Toronto aren’t afraid of experimenting either. 

In fact, this might explain why people bought the Tantus P-Spot dildo and the Calexotics First Time Crystal Booty Kit as often as they did. And it seems right after trying the butt plug, they can’t wait to get their hands on the Calexotics Cheeky X-5 anal beads. 

Interestingly enough, all experiments with anal toys start with the Aneros Eupho Trident prostate massager. 

Speaking of experimenting, Toronto buys bondage and fetish gear more than any other city. This ranges from rather tame blindfolds and handcuffs like the Sportsheets Bondage Fantasy Kit to riskier items like nipple clamps from Pipedream Products. 

Some people enjoy being tied up more than anything. So, Pipedream Products Love Cuffs and Calexotics Scandal Red Rope are purchased often. 

Of course, advanced BDSM practitioners are only satisfied when they get their hands on the Tantus Thwack Paddle Onyx or the Sportsheets S&M Mahogany Flogger. 

4. Enhancement and Care

Like luxury products, there are certain products you can use to make sex ten times more exciting. You don’t need to buy these products, but once you do, you can’t help add the items to your cart every time. 

For Toronto, the Sensuva Chocolate Coconut Spray and the Doc Johnson GoodHead Deep Throat Spray have become one of those non-negotiables. Once you know how relaxed your throat can get and these sprays can virtually get rid of the gag reflex, it’s hard not to use them every time. 

Funnily enough, the bulk buy of oral spray explains why Toronto loves dildo-casting kits as well. Items like the Clone A Willy Balls Light Tone and Empire Labs Vibrating Clone A Willy let you replicate your partner’s penis. 

It’s fun to make it with your partner. More importantly, it can serve as a good practice toy for giving head if you combine it with the oral spray. 

Now, speaking of products to ramp up your bedroom activities, there is one item we have to use no matter what. But you can make the item more exciting than a necessity if you know how. 

Some Toronto people go for ultra-thin condoms like the Drywell Hyaluronic. Others go for ribbed condoms like the Lelo Hex or the LifeStyles Pleasure.

Toronto’s diversity is reflected in the city’s choice of a wide range of sex toys. But these are the sexual wellness items Toronto keeps coming back for every time. 

These are Toronto’s top picks every season: 

1. Womanizer Duo 2

The Womanizer Duo 2 is a perfect example of what good design can achieve. The rabbit-style vibrator has two ends. The round, larger head is for clitoral stimulation via air pressure. The blowing of air at different intensity levels can give a more heady feeling than vibrations. 

The other end is smoother and titled just right to hit your G-spot. You can choose between 10 vibration modes here, which range from tempo to waves and pulsations. 

It’s got two separate motors with two separate controls. So, you can enjoy clitoral and G-spot stimulation at the same time. 

But the favorite feature of Toronto might be the smart silencing system. Basically, the vibrator only turns on when it comes into contact with your skin and turns off immediately when you remove it.

If you‘re living with a roommate, this could save you from super embarrassing moments if they unexpectedly come into the room. 

2. Fun Factory Be-One Finger Vibrator

Finger vibrators are usually the underrated children of vibrators. But Toronto does not forget to appreciate the Fun Factory Be-One. 

It’s a couple’s toy as much as it is a solo item. The toy also doesn’t have a gender-specific design or function. A straight couple can have as much fun with it as a queer couple. 

You slip on the vibe between your index finger and middle finger. With one button, you can switch between two motors bouncing 4 vibration speeds between each other. 

There is also a randomized “flirt” setting. It loops on its own every five minutes to give you an intense burst of pleasure and bring you closer to orgasm. 

3. Pure Instinct for Her Pheromone Oil

What do the women in Toronto do before a date they’re particularly nervous about? Well, if Toronto’s tendency to buy from XOXTOYS is anything to go by, they spray on the Pure Instinct for Her Pheromone Oil Roll-On. 

The roll-on oil is exactly what you need to make you feel in control and sexy. The base products are sandalwood, vanilla, tangerine, and a hint of musk. All these scents tangle with your natural scent, creating a unique, appealing fragrance. 

The roll-on smells differently on everyone because of this. So, even if you were to buy a bunch for all your friends, you would all emit a different vibe.

XOXTOYS keeps a running collection of the best international and local brands. We know what Toronto likes, and we make sure you never see the out-of-stock sign when you come to shop. 

These are the brands we’ve noted Toronto loves:

• We-Vibe: When it comes to couples's sex toys, few brands could compete with We-Vibe. Toronto certainly got through the worst of the pandemic with We-Vibe’s synchronized vibrations and the We-Connect app. The Chorus Couples is on every Toronto couple purchase list. So are the Date Night Special Edition Kit and the Moxie+ Panty Vibe. For couples not in a long-distance relationship, the Bond Vibrating Cock Ring works as the perfect way to bond in person. 
• Pipedream Products: Pipedream Products caters to every demographic, and they do it without compromising on quality. You’re as likely to find BDSM products as you’re to find finger teasers or a couple’s beginner’s vibration kit. Some of Toronto’s favorites from them include Fantasy For Her Finger Vibe, PDX Elite Moto-Bator 2, and the Ultimate Pleasure Oral Sex Simulator. 
• Master Series: Master Series has a huge hold on the BDSM industry. Specifically, when it comes to sex furniture, everyone in Toronto knows where they should be buying their products from. They’ve got the entire beginner to the advanced collection, from obedience benches to hanging strap cages. They also keep appropriate accessories like a Chrome Heart Choker and Invade Fisting Cream. 
• CALEXOTICS: CALEXOTICS is a brand made by women, for women. You will find products here you used to think only your fantasies could capture. For example, the Mini Marvels Marvelous Teaser fits in between your fingers, so you can travel with it anywhere. With 10 intense pulsation settings and its leaf-shaped body, you can pinpoint pleasure where you need it. Meanwhile, the Shameless Slim Charmer has 7 vibration modes, 850 thrusts per minute, and 4 up and down motion functions. You might never need another vibrator once you get this one. 

Wet: Wet knocks it out of the park when it comes to silicone lubes. Their Platinum Silicone Lubricant is a paraben-free, latex-compatible product. It’s something you can use in the shower, for dryness, and for anal sex. At the same time, their water-based lube is also no joke. The Wet Original has a consistency few water-based lubes do.

York University, the third-largest university in Canada, has an entire BDSM club. This is enough to give you a brief idea of how welcoming Toronto’s sexual wellness community is. 

Even a simple Google search can direct you to countless parties and workshops held in Toronto. Some of these include The Everything to Do with Sex Show, the Intimate Relating Playshop, The Ritual Chamber Munch, and so on. The Ritual Chamber Munch occurs every month, so don’t be sad if you miss out on one. Meanwhile, the Taboo Show, which is a yearly event, even has XOXTOYS as one of the vendors. 

For someone entirely new to experimenting, FetLife is best for finding tailored events. You can find hardcore underground parties and events for mingling with people in the same community. 

Once you get to know some of the people at these events, you can grab your invitation to monthly private events from them. The private parties have entire rooms for sex equipped with BDSM gear. 

And as anyone in Toronto would tell you, the best place to mingle without the pleasure of participating is the Oasis. It holds monthly fetish events, but even without those, you can break off into small groups after meeting new people there. 

Some go lounge by the pool and dance, while others head straight for the dungeon. When you enter the club, you get to choose a bracelet signifying varying things. One type of bracelet makes it clear you don’t want to be approached. Another indicates you are only looking for partners of the same gender. 

Toronto’s sexual wellness community is truly diverse, with all the workshops and parties you could hope to attend. Take your time and decide what to attend depending on your comfort level.

XOXTOYS is deeply rooted in Toronto’s sexual wellness community. For one, Toronto users enjoy free and faster shipping for items with a total cost of $59. With Toronto’s love for buying sex toys, it’s an easy number to reach. 

But more so, XOXTOYS also appears as an offline vendor for many of Toronto’s sexual wellness events. The trust we build with our high-quality products has the people of Toronto seeking us out online. 

Because they know when they buy from us, they will get:

• Chance to buy and browse through a vast selection of local and international brands
• Modern toys with specific features they can’t find anywhere else
• Huge discount offers and ultra-fast customer service
• Discreet shopping experience with the shipping label nor the credit card statement mentioning the real shop or brand. 

We might be more proud of our customer service than anything else. If you reach out to us via the contact form or email at info@xoxtoys.com, we will respond right away. 

We will solve any query you have. You could ask us how to use an item in detail, and we would be happy to walk you through the features.