BDSM Toys

BDSM toys range from handcuffs, ropes, and gags to whips, paddles, and sex swings. These are toys used to take you to the specific power dynamics between a submissive and a dominant. The toys revolve around restraint, pain and pleasure, and sensory deprivation.

Types of BDSM Toys

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FAQs

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What’s the safest way to engage in BDSM play?

Before you get into BDSM play, it would be smart to do adequate research. Sit in on some special classes or community events with your partner if need be.

Don’t forget to have an honest discussion on your likes and boundaries and set safe words. The first priority is everything is done safely and with consent.

Are there BDSM toys for beginners?

BDSM toys like blindfolds and handcuffs are the best ones for beginners to start with. These toys have a quick-release mechanism, so in case of a tricky situation, you can stop what you’re doing immediately. 

For handcuffs, you can start with the Love To Love Attach Me and for blindfolds, go with the Pipedream Products Satin Love Mask.

How do I clean BDSM toys?

This depends on the kind of toy you have. If it’s silicone-made, you can boil it in dish soap and water. If it’s leather, you should wipe it down with antibacterial soap and lukewarm water. 

For fabric-adjacent BDSM toys, you can either hand wash them or throw the items in a laundry bag and machine wash them at a gentle cycle.

Is electro-stimulation safe?

If you use a device specifically designed for erotic electro-stimulation, the potential danger is low. This means it should have quick shut-off features and controls for graduated intensity. 

Of course, the toy should be operated by an experienced user, rather than a beginner.

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Key Considerations While Choosing BDSM Toys

Material: Leather can feel scratchy while silicone feels the softest on the skin. Metal is for those who love the cold touch or even like bruises to some level, such as from the cinch of metal handcuffs. 

Comfort and Safety: Your BDSM toys should have adjustable straps and they should be padded so you don’t end up with red and blue marks all over your skin afterward. 

Experience Level: If you’re a beginner, it doesn’t make sense to start with ropes, floggers, or nipple clamps. These are all complex items requiring a high level of caution. Meanwhile, cuffs and blindfolds are perfect if as they require minimum expertise.

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